Officially...

...here's a good sign:

I realized that V's address is in the automatic address function here.  I just deleted it.  I have to wonder if I have confused her with another V address at any time.  Of course when I send things to myself I might have sent them to her by mistake.  No more.  Deleted.  Don't want to contact her.  I need to check other mails and make sure she's gone.

Used and despised and making my way out of her crushing haze.  I'll always care but I know I can get treated right and have big love returned.

Bye, V.  Wishing you the best of everything.