ok, here's a question....

How do you meet women who are interested in women when you don't want to meet them in a bar?

There is the computer, of course.  But the computer is laborious, slow and you never know what you're going to get.  I know there are plenty of good women out there waiting and looking, but where are they?

I ask not only for myself but for another woman I met online who is seeking her first experience with a woman.  She is looking for someone feminine and well-kept. 

People can usually tell I'm female and you can take me out, but this one is looking for someone she can take somewhere nice before she takes her home....

Suggestions welcomed!